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went to 'bai' my grandparents in Kepong. (Mum's side)

It's kind of ridiculous how only the sons can 'bai' first and the daughters shouldn't actually 'bai' their parents because they're considered not part of the family anymore. Like as in you're under your husband's family. 

Or if you're a female and you want to 'bai' your parents, you should go AFTER your brothers so that the whatever luck will go to your sons and stuff. Unless your siblings are all females, that's a different story.

I don't know if other families are like that but both my parents are like that. My Mum 'bai's my grandparents without Dad's knowledge. -.-. -______________________- I just found out this year. I didn't know that my father WASN'T supposed to know. But whatever.

You know those things you're supposed to do when you want to go off. You ask them if they've eaten the food and you use the coins to tell. Blablabla. So I went with my cousin sister (the one with spoiled kids) and my Mum. We were there until like 11 something because we kept asking my grandparents if they've eaten and with the coins, they said no. So we had to waittttttttttttt until they're finished then we can go back. It's kind of accurate lol I don't know maaaannn. 

For the 1st round, my cousin sister asked and they said no. My Mum asked right after my cousin and they also said no. Then my Mum asked me to try and THEY ALSO SAID NO.

So like okaaayyy finneeeeeeee. There were quite a lot of food there lol. There are like a bottle of Coke for Gong Gong, Hakka Lui Chas, fruits, ICE CREAMS + BREADS, yeah.

My grandfather loves Coke lolololol. He also likes KFC. HE LOVES THEM. When I was a kid, Mum always brought him with us to KFC HAHAHAHA. HE ATE NUGGETS ALL THE TIMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. Well it's quite near their house so we walked there. 

My grandmother always called me Lisa. My eldest sister's name. FOREVER OFFENDEDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD. She only remembers my sister. HMPHMPHMPHMPHMPHPHHHH.

Then we asked if they've eaten like 100 times. Only about 1 hour later they said yes lol. 

Last year, my cousin asked if our family's health would be okay. They said no. So she asked if it's my youngest aunt, cause she had breast cancer at that time. They also said no. But we didn't really care about it much. 

Then, last week she told us if we remembered this and we obviously forgot about it. Now my Yi Yi's in very very poor health. She doesn't want to see anyone. Not even her friends or other relatives. No. She'll lock the door and everything. But my Mum has the key cause we sometimes ta pao for her. She was really really mad when my Yi Ma went to visit her but was eventually okay after seeing my cousin's baby boy. She likes kids lol.

BUT SHE DOESN'T WANT TO SEE ANYONE. I think she has cancer. I don't know. She doesn't want to take injection or medicine. So she's really really sick now. She got a lot skinnier every time I visit her. She's only okay with my family and her own family. The other aunts, nope. She'll lock everything, and pretend she's not at home.

So you can say that my grandparents were talking about her. 

Haaaaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiyyyyyyyyyyyyyyooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. Eat your medicines lah. It feels extremely quiet without the noisy you. Please eat your medicines, Yi Yi.

After all the praying and stuff, we had Hakka Lui Chas for lunch lol.

IT'S SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO NNNNNNNNIIIIIIIIIIIIICCCCCCCCCCCCEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.

My Mum likes bringing me out to places because I'll eat anything she wants to eat hehehehehehehehahahaha. She said my sisters are stubborn and will never accompany her eat those dishes she wants to eat. Hahhahahahaha. True. My eldest sister won't eat if she doesn't like it lol. My 2nd sister eats only a little and eats fucking slow because she reads while eating. IT ANNOYS ME. So yeah I'm like my Mum's makan-makan buddy. 

WELL. IT'S EITHER I STARVE OR EAT OKAY. 

My Mum knows the places to find cheap and delicious food hahahahahahhahaha. IT'S ALL IN HER BRAIN. IF YOU WANT TO EAT ABC, IT WOULD BE SETAPAK. IF YOU WANT TO EAT TAU FU FA OR THE AIR MATA KUCING, IT WOULD BE PETALING STREET. THERE'S ALSO A HAWKER STALL SELLING EXTREMELY DELICIOUS PORK PORRIDGE. I don't normally eat those pork intestines, but when his ones are really really nice. There's no weird smell and it's nice lol.

See, I have to prepare when my Mum's on a makan makan trip. I cannot wear slippers. My feet will DIE. Also make sure to wear shorts because we will have to walk very far before we can eat, AND YOU WILL BE SWEATING LIKE FUCK WHEN YOU'RE EATING.